"Divorce can be disastrous. But where children are involved never getting married is far worse"

Divorce can be disastrous. But where children are involved never getting married is far worse

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But the comparative sociology of marriage tells us we jettison it at our peril. Across its various forms and rules it is a human universal and with good reason. Marriage everywhere is the bridge between affinal and kin relationships ­ a bond integral to the functioning and survival of human society. It defines social relationships, social and economic responsibilities.

It establishes genealogical connections and confers 'belonging' and social identity. It prevents incest ­ now more prevalent in our underclass than we know (something of deep concern to the more thoughtful of our politicians and social workers). No other set of relationships or connections ­ whether through friendship, work, sport or volunteering - replicate the function of marriage.