The article itself is that there is an uptick in divorce, since the economy is improving. During the low points of the recession, people either couldn't afford a divorce or due to assets it wasn't a smart move.
The truth is most Americans aren't in bad marriages, they're just bored. Also, they pick the wrong person to marry for all the wrong reasons. Young people, ignore everything you see in movies, TV, etc. about what marriage is all about. Before you even get close to saying I do, consider this very carefully: someone who makes a good boyfriend or girlfriend will probably not make a good spouse. Marriage is not so much about love as it is about affection, respect, common goals and values, and, most of all, commitment. It is highly unlikely that you will be madly "in love" with someone you will spend the rest of your life with. Romantic love is a chimera; it doesn't last. SO get yourself past that stage before you even think about marriage.I'll comment later on my thoughts.
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