But they're not the same because their ingredients are different.
I have maintained that if California's Domestic Partnerships are Constitutional, so is the California Marriage Amendment, Proposition 8. DPs are only available to same-sex couples or to couples including someone over a certain age (in the 60s, if I recall correctly). While California law mandates that DP participants be treated as spouses, DPs are not the same thing as marriage and aren't supposed to be the same thing as marriage. While there may be some man-woman couples who want a DP rather than a marriage, it is okay for the state to tell them "no" – just as it is okay for the state to tell a brideless or groomless couple, or three or more people, that they can't get a state marriage license. This is because a bride+groom pairing is objectively different from the pairing of two women or two men.
Associated Press writer Jill Lawless reports that a British man+woman couple, Tom Freeman and Katherine Doyle, is seeking a civil partnership, or perhaps more precisely, they are seeking a courtroom battle. (From what I understand, coffee caught on in America due to protest against tea's British connection.)
The 26-year-old Londoners think they should be allowed to have a civil partnership, a form of legal union available in Britain only to same-sex couples.
On Tuesday, after having their application to form a civil partnership rejected by officials at their local town hall in Islington, north London, they said they will go to court to win the right. They are being backed by gay rights activists, who hope a ruling that allows straight couples the right to a civil partnership would mean, in turn, that gay couples have the right to wed.
I'm not too familiar with British law, and so I wonder if it would be likely for a court to "engender" civil partnerships without neutering marriage.
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"The titles of husband and wife and all the things that pop into people's heads when you say you're getting married don't appeal to us," said Doyle, a student. "In our day-to-day life we feel like civil partners — we don't feel like husband and wife, and we want the government to recognize that."
This is understandable. I think fornication and unmarried cohabitation based on fornication are morally wrong, but shouldn't be illegal, and I can understand this being a possible position for a couple in today's culture.
Marriage and civil partnership are virtually identical in law, and activists argue both should be open to all couples.
No, we should have a different word for something that unites a bride and groom, because marriage should hold a special place in the law and the state is most concerned about the kind of pairing that may produce new citizens.
Some legal experts think there is a strong case, because discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation infringes Britain's human rights law.
It isn't on the basis of sexual orientation. It is on the basis of behavior and sex. Men and women are not identical, nor are heterosexual or homosexual behaviors indentical. If they were, the terms "heterosexual" and "homosexual" and "transgender" would be meaningless nonsense.
Britain introduced civil partnerships in 2005, giving [same-sex] couples the same legal protection, adoption and inheritance rights as heterosexual married partners - but not the label of marriage.
It only took five years for the Trojan Horse to serve its real purpose.
The Netherlands, Canada, Belgium, Portugal and Spain have [neutered] marriage, while Germany, France, Austria and Switzerland have laws similar to Britain's.
And many, many other countries don't.
"We really appreciate the civil partnerships," said Sharon Ferguson, a pastor in the Metropolitan Community Church who hopes to wed partner Franka Strietzel but has been turned down for a marriage license. "But particularly because of my Christian faith, it's marriage that I want."
Which Christian faith is that? In both the Bible and the history of Christianity, marriage has always been presented as something uniting a bride and a groom.
As I've said before, I lean towards support for domestic partnerships or civil unions, though their use as a Trojan Horse means I can’t advocate them, because I care about marriage more than making things more convenient for adults who choose to share their life with someone of the same sex. I also can see why some marriage defenders think that they devalue marriage aside from the Trojan Horse thing, but if they encourage stability in same-sex relationships, that might be enough of a positive to outweigh the negative.
In conclusion, I want to see the British courts recognize that a pairing inclusive of the diversity of both sexes is different than a pairing that excludes one of the sexes, and thus laws making a distinction are just.