This is about two years old, but recently brought to my attention by Patschef. It struck me, as far as my current understanding of life and the world, as newsworthy still.
Domestic violence (DV) restraining orders are a perfect weapon for an alienating parent. Typically, in addition to removing an accused abuser from the marital home, a DV restraining order also "temporarily" bars the accused abuser from seeing his or her children, and "temporarily" gives the accusing parent exclusive physical custody. And temporary, in the Family Court, has a funny way of becoming permanent.
Obtaining a restraining order based on a false allegation of domestic violence gets the target parent out of the house and out of the picture. A father who can't see his kids, for example, is unable to rebut the lie "Daddy doesn't love you anymore. That's why he left you." Nor can he rebut the alternate lie, "Daddy is dangerous. The wise judge said so. That's why he can't see you."
Please visit www.abuse-excuse.com and the book - Elusive Innocence.
ReplyDeleteOne of the worst things about false DV claims is that they make it more difficult for those who have truly suffered DV.
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